For Sacred Repair, Renewal, and Next-Level Devotion

“The blunt and sobering truth is there is no path to deep, relational satisfaction outside of the path of the open heart. The only way to know and be known, and to have the possibility to trust and be trusted is to share both the divine and the destitute, the ravishing and the unruly, the holy and the hollow inside of us.”  ~ Chelan Harkin

It is a profound joy and privilege to support couples in ceremonial containers—sometimes following a series of productive sessions on Zoom. There is something exquisitely powerful about holding sacred space for two people as they courageously open to the next level of truth, intimacy, and sacred partnership they’ve been yearning for.

My Role in the Space

Having already cultivated a field of trust, safety, and attunement with each of you—both individually and as a couple—we enter into ceremony with clarity and care. I serve as a grounded, respectful guide: tracking the subtle and overt dynamics between you, holding a safe and sacred field, and gently steering the communication when needed.

Together, we create space for truth-telling and deep listening, softening long-held defenses, unspoken grief, and relational pain. This allows us to tend to the places where stagnancy and unattended hurt have taken root—manifesting as distance, disappointment, resentment, or projection. Through radical openness, clear presence, and compassionate mirroring, we can turn toward the tender territories where trust has eroded and respect has faltered, and begin the sacred work of repair.

Ceremony invites the mending of ruptured connection, the renewal of trust and respect, and the reawakening of holy intimacy.

Who Is This For?

Whether you are at a threshold of deepening commitment, seeking sacred repair, or discerning whether to part ways, this work serves couples ready to meet truth with open hearts. Ceremony is not a guarantee of staying together, but a wholehearted commitment to clarity, compassion, and the sacred ground of love.

Accelerated Deepening, Commitment, Devotion

For some couples, this work marks the beginning of a new era—one of deeper safety, devotion, and mutual commitment. For others, it brings healing to patterns of fear, love-withholding, intimacy challenges, and emotional disconnection. It is for couples who are ready to clear stagnation, take responsibility, and ask for what they truly need in order to thrive together

Mutual vulnerability is the consecrating force. When we dare to be transparent, our relationship becomes sacred ground.

Profound, Lasting Transformation

This kind of accelerated couples work is not for everyone. But for those with whom it resonates, it can be a profound way to arrive at the truth of the matter—to speak and hear what needs to be said in a safe and sacred container.

When we allow ourselves to discover the power of sacred vulnerability and transparency with one another, it can be an absolute game-changer. Mutual vulnerability consecrates relationship. It softens the armor around the heart, opens us where we’ve been closed, and restores a sense of empathy between us.

This work is for couples who are ready to clear painful, stagnating energies and beliefs—who are willing to take mature responsibility for their part in the dynamic, and who long to feel safe enough to ask for what they truly need in order to thrive together.

Our capacity to tell the truth to one another is one of the most vital components of healthy relationship. Ceremonial work invites new pathways of skillful truth-telling and healthy vulnerability—gifts you can continue to draw upon in everyday life.

Conscious Transition or Closure

Other couples for whom a ceremonial intensive may be a good fit are those who realize they need to either come home more deeply to one another in wholehearted commitment—or let each other go. Healing does not presume a particular outcome. Sometimes, couples respect and care for one another enough to invest in a quality of support that ensures the closure and transition to a new form is filled with healing, respect, compassion, and kindness.

Designing Your Ceremony

Couples can choose between a 1- or 2-day immersion, based on what best supports your schedule, budget, and intention. We will tailor the structure and spaciousness of the container, including whether and how to work with sacramental allies.

What’s Included

• Three preparatory Zoom calls—one as a couple and one with each of you individually
• A personalized intake form for reflection and clarity
• A sacred ceremonial immersion (1 or 2 days)
• A post-ceremony integration session together via Zoom

Additional individual or joint sessions may be recommended based on what best serves the healing process.
Please see more details on that below. 

Sacred Appointment

Couple’s Ceremony is a sacred undertaking for couples who are willing to show up with courageous humility, care, and self-responsibility. And while it can be incredibly tender, the rewards—clarity, intimacy, freedom—are often profound.

If your heart feels called, I invite you to schedule a complimentary discovery call. You may come as one partner or together—and we’ll feel into what’s right.

Additional Preparation & Integration Options

Additional Preparation:

Some couples choose to include three or more weekly Zoom sessions leading into the immersion.

This can give us time to carefully uncover the core dynamics most in need of healing or transformation. It’s often a supportive path for couples who have been living in deep disconnect, distance, or mutual disappointment—and who may not even know where to begin.

With skill and care, we gently open a field of mutual inquiry, truth-telling, and curiosity to explore what the deeper threads of dissonance and pain are truly made of.

Additional Integration — Ongoing Support to Meet the Tests:

Some couples also find it valuable to continue with weekly sessions following the immersion.

This work places me in the profoundly privileged position of becoming intimately attuned to your unique dynamic—the patterns, challenges, and gifts that define your partnership. In that intimacy, I learn to speak the language of your bond, and can support you as you integrate, embody, and live into the fruits of your ceremony.

You will, without question, be tested on the insights, revelations, and renewed commitments that arise through this work. Having a trusted guide walking alongside you can be an invaluable support as you meet those tests with love, clarity, and courage.

Schedule a Discovery Call:

If any of this sounds like it could be a good fit for your partnership, the first step is to schedule a complimentary discovery call using the link below.

You’re welcome to book the call either as an individual or together as a couple. If I first meet with just one of you and it feels like a match, we can then schedule a second call with both partners present.

I look forward to meeting you!